Are you struggling with your confidence? Does your self esteem keep you away from doing what you actually want? Well I used to to have the same problems. I used to get bullied for being the skinniest kid in out school. This really affected my life. I had self esteem issues and I wasn´t able to do or say what I actually wanted to, because I was afraid that people would disagree with my opinion. I didn´t talk girls because I always had a hard time approaching them at first place. This really wasn´t a satisfying time as a child.
However I made one major adjustment in my life: I started to go to the Gym. At first people laughed at me and thought I was stupid. They asked themselves why such a skinny kid could start to go to the gym. Well they asked themselves those questions until I saw my first results. Soon they were quit. Soon they were jealous. Soon they realized that I was doing something they weren´t able to do.
But this is not what this blog post is about. In this blog post I want to talk about my journey. The things I have learned in order to become the confident person I am today. Going to the gym was the stepping stone for me to start work on my personality. Especially things like confidence, success, mindset and work ethic really attracted my mind. I wrote a course about how to build true inner confidence, so in case you are interested check it out. I share all of my knowledge I have achieved through my own mistakes, my own experiences and hours of research:
1. Essential Changes you have to make NOW
The most important this I have learned is that negatvity is a bitch. You completely should remove negativity in every possible way from your life:
First start with yourself. Stop that negative self talk. Stop telling yourself that you can´t do something. You are the only person that keeps you away from doing what you actually want so f*ck everyone that says you can´t do something.
Remove people that are toxic for you. One thing that was really important in order to gain confidence was removing the people that are just bad for me and start meeting new people that actually provide value for me. You are the combination of the 5 people you spend most time with so if you are friends are up to no good you should remove them from your life as soon as possible. I can honestly tell you that if you remove one toxic person in your life right now and get one really influential person instead you already will be much more confident.
2. Change your Mindset
Believe. Picture yourself winning, so you will increase your chances of actually succeeding in a certain task increases. If you truly believe that you can do something it will be so much easier for you to achieve that goal since you already have the right mindset. Your work ethic will increase and this ultimately will make you a much more confident person since you experience small accomplishments every single day.
Learn how to deal with failure. It´s really essential to learn how to deal with failure. If you think of failure as a bad thing then you already have lost. Failure is the opportunity to improve. Recognizing this is crucial. If you realize that failure just is an indication that you aren´t ready for a certain task then you have so much room to improve. The most successful people on this world have failed multiple times. But what separates them from unsuccessful people is that they kept going, learned through their mistakes and then actually succeeded
3. Actions that will lead you to True Inner Confidence
Look for challenges. Get out of your comfort zone. I know this is really hard but confidence just is the trust to your abilities. If you are able to get out of your comfort zone and you actually achieve small things, your confidence will increase, trust me. The first time I was able to do some cool looking push ups on a party was a huge confidence boost for me. The first time I achieved the “muscle up” (a fitness move) was such a great feeling. I want you to be hungry for those feelings as well. If you are able to improve on your craft, your confidence will increase as well.
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I wish you best of success with increasing your confidence and becoming the best version you can be
If you currently are struggling to achieve goals or feel like you have the potential to become the best version of yourself but you have no clear strategy on how to progress, this Blog Post will be perfect for you! I will briefly tell you the perfect “recipe” for success and I will also share some useful tricks and tips you can immediately use to improve your life and become successful in whatever you do.
The information I am about to tell you is compiled through hours of research from some of the most successful people on this planet like Michael Jordan, Bill Gates or Christiano Ronaldo.
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Step 1: Mindset
Having the right mindset is the foundation of a happy and successful life. In order to put in the work, you must be 100% convinced that what you are doing is great work for you and the world. You must be willing to learn from your mistakes and from others in order to correct your skillset.
There are small adjustments you can make in order to improve your way of thinking immediately. No matter what you want do, if your attitude sucks you will have a hard time contending with your
competitors. You always want to have that mental advantage.
“If you’re trying to achieve, there will be roadblocks. I’ve had them; everybody has had them. But obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.”
This is a quote from the greatest basketball player of all time, Michael Jordan. He is the best example for a growth mindset, never being satisfied and always striving for more.
Step 2: Knowledge
Once you have achieved the right mindset, it´s time to start working on your knowledge. Many people fail to be successful even though they put in hours of work every single day. That is simply due the fact that those people don´t work smart.
If you don´t have the right knowledge you are going to waste a lot of time learning through the process. Although learning from your own mistakes can have some benefits, you always want to work as effective as possible. So before you go out there and start to work, you first want to make sure that you are an expert in whatever you are doing.
Nowadays there are so many opportunities to educate yourself, there is the internet, books and competitors in your niche. It has never been this easy to learn something new. Even if you suck at something right now, don´t worry. Take your time and do the research. You soon will find yourself being an expert in a certain topic.
Step 3: Work
Now it´s time to apply all of the skills you have learned and actually start to work. I can assure that putting in the work is the only variable of success. If you can outwork your competitors you will be successful. Now how much work is enough?
The answer is quite easy: You can never work enough. Realizing that there always will be work is really important. Depending on your goals you can have workdays of 12-14 hours every single day. This is the truth.
How do I start out?
You start out by actually starting out. With this I mean instead of pondering and strategizing you want to make sure to take action. Trust me that you will figure out a lot things by yourself if you just go out there and start to work. This is the best way to start with anything. Once you have acquired the right amount of knowledge you can try anything you want.
Make sure to work smart. That´s really important. As I already explained in step 2, it´s really important to not only work hard but also smart. You can save a lot of time if you make the right decisions. Work effectively and you will see that you will progress faster than you expected. Finding the perfect combination of hard and smart work is the key to success!
Hopefully you enjoyed this post, I really wish you best of success with your journey to success
Many companies are struggling to get new customers and fail to create a brand. The main reason for this is their marketing strategy. They think that local marketing campaigns are the key to success. But this is the wrong way to go in the 21st century. The game is heading to social media marketing. Let me tell you why:
Social media is the best place to document your work, offer coupons and overall build a community. I like to call it a “tribe”. If you are keen on reaching thousands of people you have to focus a lot on being remarkable. “Viral cycle time” is the time spent, until someone tells a friend about your business. You have to try to minimize this time as much as possible. And you can do this with the help of social media:
Especially Instagram is a potent way to connect to your fans. I talk about this in my Udemy Course about how to organically grow a following on instagram. You need to engage with your fans. It´s really important to stay in contact to your customers. You can do this by actively posting pictures/ videos, posting on your story or even live-streaming your action. With this you build true customers that will come back to you. You want to give away free stuff and also do competitions on your page.
But just know that it takes a lot of time and patience to build your instagram account. The competition is big. You must stand out and be patient enough to actually become successful. It also takes a lot of work. I think the most effective work you can do is by direct messaging possible customers. It´s going down in the DMs. If you truly want to become successful you need to spend at least 1-2 hours every day trying to provide value:
Instagram allows you to take a look at the best posts from your location. I want you to search for the city your business is based in and take a look at 9 best posts in your region. I now want you to DM every single one of those people. These people usually have quite a huge following and would be great customers for your business. Now try to provide value by giving them something for free. Your message could look something like this: (example is a local pizza store)
If you come to our “local pizza store” today, you will get a free pizza if you share it on instagram. This is a limited offer only, so make sure to be quick =) Love your page and I really would like to see you today. Greetings “local pizza store”.
Now this is how you get customers. You may have to spend like 5-10 dollars for that free pizza but let me tell you the branding value this person will offer you is worth up to 1000 euros. Imagine the person will post it, friends will see the post and as a result will come to your local business as well. This is such a huge opportunity!
Let me tell you that if you put in smart work on instagram, you will boost your traffic a lot. In this course I will go into detail how you can become an instagram legend by getting more active followers. I strongly focus on getting high engaging followers that like and comment all of your psots. I will also share some more methods and techniques you can use in order to maximize your brands conversion.
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Ahyanah Mincy is an ordinary college student from Newark NJ who is using her verified profile on onmogul.com to make a change for women in business. She’s a student of Saint Peter’s University and is ironically majoring in Business Management. She is really passionate about business management and overall business as she uses her platform in journalism solely to promote women in leadership roles. She is a full time college student who devotes her spare time to promote women in entrepreneurship and in business.
She writes for onmogul.com which is a platform for women and often referred to as the Linkedin for women. On this site women can ask questions, find jobs, sell things, conduct discussions and it’s most popular feature write articles. Although thousands of women write articles everyday only 5,000 users have the honored of being verified which is usually reserved for celebrities and executives of companies. Ahyanah’s blogs which promote women empowerment have become so popular that Ahyanah Mincy has earned the honor of the verified. This college business woman is using her large platform to promote women in business and entrepreneurship. She also uses her blog to promote black women not only in business but in entrepreneurship as well.
The goal of her blogs is simple to motivate women and minorities in business that they can do it. Leadership roles in business have a stigma that is only meant for meant for men but her articles constantly prove that wrong. For example Ayanah wrote an article about companies run by black women and the leadership roles that black women have within their respective companies. This influencer uses her platform to blog about not only women empowerment in business but black women empowerment as well. She has written articles about successful black female entrepreneurs and their businesses. She wrote another article about inspirational quotes famous entrepreneurs have said and advice to other college students her age.
Her articles put a spotlight on young, female and african american entrepreneurs and her articles often motivate the minds of its readers. I had the pleasure of talking to Ahyanah Mincy where she exclusively informed us about a few of future articles she is working on. She is doing an article about workplace discrimination and shedding the light of what African Americans go through in the workplace. She’s also doing an article about moms that are also entrepreneurs and college students that own businesses. This young journalist is focused on using her platform to empower women and minorities in business and entrepreneurship. To follow her blogs subscribe here https://onmogul.com/ahyanah-mincy-81